Introduction

Marriage is that institution that graduates two individuals together with a degree of compromise and patience where you are always taking different exams from time to time, and it does not even allow you to question back. In Indian society, this proverb is very famous “SHAADI KA LADDOO JO KHAYE WO BHI PACHHTAYE OR JO NA KHAYE WO BHI PACHHTAY”. We Indians celebrate this undergraduate degree with great pomp and a show (after all, we never leave a single chance to show off). This grand celebration is a warning against the massive destruction that is going to happen to the lives of both individuals.

The influence of society on the institution of marriage.

Our society is always demanding, It keeps on demanding things from time to time. Since birth, we are expected to do things and behave as per the predefined parameters of society. And this society is nothing but those uncles and aunties who are always poking their noses in somebody else’s lives. One can never impress society just like Mother-in-law, no matter how much you put your efforts She wasn’t bothered to give a shit.

We have been taught since childhood to be an optimistic person and, like good kids, we try to stay optimistic even in unfavorable situations. But this utopia of optimism is soon going to vanish the very moment you take admission in the institution of marriage. No doubt life is changed after marriage for the couple, after all one has to restyle his/her life in a completely changed way which requires time and is onerous to do all of a sudden. In the process of accepting the change in life, couples face ego clashes. These clashes lead to serious fights and divorce in the worst cases. 

Partners should be in a mutually beneficial relationship.

Marriage can be a beautiful journey that can be enjoyed with a life partner. The key ingredients of the recipe of a happy married life are love, care, sensitivity, compassion, and a lot of positive vibes. The Law of attraction works everywhere for everything, if you feel and think good, then good will come to you. Marriage is always a two-way road. You need to invest so much in the relationship to make it work. One person cannot make it through single-handedly, it is an arduous task.   

After marriage, when a woman comes to a different place just to start her new life with her husband and his family leaving behind her home, parents, siblings,

blood relatives, and friends. They must make her feel more comfortable and need to be more compassionate towards her. In Indian society, the culture of joint family is still in practice.

What is the role of in-laws?

In-laws play a significant role in the life of a newly married couple. It is believed that women are emotionally stronger than men, which is why women can bear the pain of separation from their loved ones. If the in-laws are understanding and supportive, it makes life easier for a girl to manage things, If the in-laws are worshipers of the devil then the worst nightmare comes true.

Conclusion

In my opinion, Marriage works only if a couple takes responsibility starts making important decisions themselves, and takes advice from elders when needed.

In-laws play a significant role in the life of a newly married couple. It is believed that women are emotionally stronger than men, which is why women can bear the pain of separation from their loved ones. If the in-laws are understanding and supportive, it makes life easier for a girl to manage things, If the in-laws are worshipers of the devil then worst nightmare comes true.